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Participants in the Win- Win Negotiations course will learn to:

  • Develop an effective plan and strategy for any negotiation
  • Know when and when not to negotiate
  • Negotiate face-to-face, on the phone, and through e-mail
  • Learn to become a more persuasive negotiator
  • Develop a common negotiating language with the other parties
  • Use negotiation techniques that pull information from the other parties
  • Read client and employee behaviors styles to maximize closure
  • Recognize interests and issues and avoid unnecessary positions
  • Neutralize manipulative negotiation tactics
  • Minimize negotiation conflicts and deadlocks both internally and externally
  • Coordinate negotiations within client organization
  • Meet business objectives by focusing on planning rather than on tactics

 

Negotiation Course Tips - Using Meta-Communication Against Tactics in Negotiation

I was negotiating a significant consulting contract with a very straight-laced Midwestern natural resources corporation.

My counterpart, a fellow who seemed to handle himself very well, was not at all cooperating with me to seal a deal, so instead of walking away from our negotiations, I simply said:

"You're following an interesting negotiation strategy here, but I'm sensing it's not a good fit. Whose playbook does it come from: Is it Karrass, Nierenberg, or Cohen?"

These were three well known authors at the time, so I wasn't completely surprised when he replied, somewhat sheepishly: "Karrass."

I just smiled, and suggested we get back on track.

From that moment, we negotiated in good faith and quite efficiently, drafting what turned out to be a successful agreement for both parties.

Gamesmanship, egos, and the sheer exhilaration of trying to come up with a big victory can easily ruin a negotiation. But you can put things right BY COMMENTING ON THE PROGRESS OF THE NEGOTIATION, ITSELF.

This is what I did, and I took a certain gamble when I asked him to identify his "silent partner" to our bargaining session. But this gambit, called "meta-communication," in research circles, is sometimes the ONLY way to get a failing encounter back on track.

Meta-communication is defined as: "Talking about the way we're talking with the goal of improving our communication."

"We're getting a little too loud here, and I'm not able to focus on the underlying problem, so if we can tone it down a little, I'd appreciate it and I think we'll get more done."

That is talking about the way we're talking to improve our communication, and you should try this in your negotiations.

Source: Dr. Gary Goodman link

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